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The Libou Family
In March 2001, I finally decided to move forward with my decision
to adopt
a baby as a single mom. My friend adopted his daughter with
Brightside
and after speaking with them, I decided to work with their "sister"
agency,
Happy Families. Nine months later, I was in Almaty, Kazakhstan
adopting my
beautiful baby girl. She was born on May 4th and I adopted her
on December
14th, 2001. These last few months have gone by so fast that
I can't
believe she is almost one year old already.
I
boarded a plane from JFK on November 30, 2001, arriving in Almaty
(thru Moscow), early morning on December 2nd. I met my daughter
that same day. I had not slept in almost three days when I met
her so luckily she was sweet and calm throughout our entire
visit. My impressions of the orphanage, Baby House #2, were
of a clean, well-maintained, well-run establishment. They are
very open there. Many of my visits with her were in the nursery
where the other babies were. They keep them busy, don't let
them lie there and cry. The toddlers are very friendly and precocious.
All of the children that I saw seemed to be in great shape.
Each day my driver picked me up to take me to the orphanage
for my two hour visit with
my daughter. After 14 days, I went to court and adopted her.
Everything
went very smoothly. I adopted her hours before the start of
a huge
national celebration and did not get custody of her until 3
days later,
which happened to be my birthday. The first few days were rough
and the
flight to Moscow seemed very long. Our two day stay in Moscow
did us both
a world of good. She calmed down and by the time we flew home,
she was in
great spirits which made for a peaceful ten hour flight home.
I felt well prepared by Happy Families for my journey. I also
joined a
chat group on yahoo with others adopting from Kazakhstan. I
was glad that
I brought a lot of books and music with me as I had a lot of
free time to
fill. My driver took me out several times to some local "must-see's".
This helped to pass the time. The apartment was very spacious
and clean
and had a telephone in it. I recommend bringing a touch-tone
converter
since a lot of the phones are rotary and the calling cards need
tone. The
neighborhood I stayed in was very upscale. There was an internet
cafe
around the corner with frequent bus service to a store called
Zuum where I
bought lots of souvenirs. Tatyana made herself very available.
She has a
cell phone and she keeps a very strong presence.
For those of you considering adopting from Kazakhstan, I recommend
Happy
Families. If I decide to adopt another child, I plan to use
them again.
Good luck.
Fondly.
Sara
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